Wednesday, May 07, 2008
Two-week recap
About two weeks ago I was in my village, having a great time hanging out with my villagers. But then I got in a fight with one of my sisters about her not respecting my personal space (grabbing my breasts again, but a different sister this time). I was so mad I wanted to just take off to Tamba to get away for a while to cool off, even though I'd planned to stay in the village another week before going to Tamba.
But it also happened to be the same day I was finally getting a new thatch roof put on my hut, so all my stuff was sitting out in the yard while my hut was a foot deep in old thatch, dirt, and termites. So I had to wait around til the roof was finished and I could put my stuff back in my hut.
Finally in the afternoon it was done, and just as I was about to bike out of the village, one of my host brothers called me over and told me that he and the other men in my host family were upset that I hadn't asked them to help out with thatching my hut (my counterpart and some of his friends did it). Maybe he had a point, but it frustrated me that they hadn't said anything in the three months since I bought the thatch, during which time it's been leaning against my back fence, making it obvious to anyone who happens by that I was planning to re-do my roof.
Anyway, it was all just too much stress for one day. I finally made it out of the village and up to Tamba, where I almost immediately started feeling better. But I decided to stay for the whole week to get our (filthy, disgusting! frat-) house cleaned up before the new group of volunteers arrives in mid-May.
Then last weekend all of us Tamba volunteers spent two days cleaning up a park which we have decided to adopt in our neighborhood. A bunch of kids came out to help us, and we had a lot of fun. Hopefully the community will start using the park again now.
This week I am back in my village, hanging out and getting ready for the next baby weighing. Then next week I am going on vacation to Kedougou and Guinea.
Just really integrated, or am I losing my mind?
Yesterday, after a long day of biking in the hot sun, interviewing candidates for the SeneGAD scholarship, and greeting every single person I passed in Dialacoto, I was finally biking back to my village (at 3:30 pm – the hottest part of the day – not smart!) I passed a cow on my path, and I was on the verge of asking it "Do you have peace?" when my brain caught up to me and I remembered that while greetings are very important here, that doesn't include livestock.
I think I am losing my mind, at least temporarily because of the heat. Or maybe I am just so integrated here that I am better at following the country's customs than even the locals are. After all, who's more polite – someone who greets a cow, or someone who ignores it?
Scholarships for girls
Peace Corps Senegal's "SeneGAD" program, which focuses on gender issues in development, offers scholarships for girls in middle school to help them stay in school and encourage girls to continue their education. This past week my volunteer neighbor Fonsa and I have been carrying out our part of the program, having the girls with the best grades at the middle school in Dialacoto (the only middle school in the region until Missira, 40 km away) write essays about their plans for the future and then interviewing the girls individually. The essays and interview information we'll send to Dakar, where a committee of Peace Corps volunteers will choose the scholarship winners. (The number of winners varies depending on how much money SeneGAD has been able to fundraise, but should be at least one girl from each participating school).
This is a simple process for Americans, but for girls here, especially those from small and isolated villages, I think it is strange and intimidating. Many of the girls have probably never been asked before "What do you want to do when you grow up?" It is just a given – they will farm, get married, and have babies. The girls who have made it as far as middle school – which is above the average education level in Senegal, although I think that is changing slowly – have probably been more exposed than the average girl to the idea of having a job when they grow up, but I think our questions were still hard for them. They also seemed pretty intimidated by me and Fonsa, toubab authority figures (which I find really funny – I have no authority at all here, where I am treated like a child most of the time because of my inability to speak the language properly and incompetence at cooking and other women's work). So it was hard to get the girls to talk much at all, although two of the girls – one my host sister, and the other the host sister of a former volunteer – did much better.
Here are some of the girls' answers: they all said (except for one girl, who said she might be a doctor) that they want to be teachers when they finish school. I am not sure if this is because of their lack of exposure to other sorts of jobs, or if their teachers coached them on questions we might ask and how to answer them, or if there is some other reason. We also asked the girls if they could travel and go anywhere in the world they wanted, where would they go? Most of the girls gave predictable answers of America or European countries, where they would find work, but one girl broke my heart, saying she just wants to visit Kedougou and Tamba because she has never even been that far away from home – and Tamba is only a 2 hour, $2 car ride away. (Fonsa and I are now cooking up a plan to take her to Tamba this summer for a girls' leadership camp that another volunteer is organizing). American parents will be jealous to know that most of the girls said one of their parents was their role model, but I was excited when one girl said her role model is a woman who used to be Minister for Families, because she fights for women's rights.
Overall, they were a great bunch of girls, and I wish we could do more to help them stay in school and not be forced into early marriages.
Baby weighing, Part 2
Last week I did a second baby weighing, a month after the first one. It went pretty well – we were able to get it all done in one day, instead of the two it took before, although this time fewer women brought their babies to be weighed. The results were pretty good overall as well – most of the kids had gained ½ to 1 kilo from the month before, although there were a few who stayed the same or even lost weight, mainly because they'd been sick. (Mangoes are in season now, abundant and free in the village – just pick one off a tree! – so it's easy for people to supplement their diets with them and get more vitamins than usual, but the kids will sometimes eat unripe ones, and then they get diarrhea).
My challenge now is to get more of the women to understand that it's the information they get from the baby weighing that is beneficial, rather than the act of weighing the babies itself – too many women seem to think that sticking the baby on the scale provides some benefit, like getting a vaccination, and they will leave before I can tell them how much the baby weights or where it lands on the growth charts.
Sunday, April 06, 2008
Independence Day
Saturday, 5 April 2008
Yesterday, the 4th of April, was Senegal's independence day. I went to Dialacoto to see the parade there; the kids marched by with their school clases, and the women with the women's groups (which mostly do gardening). My favorite was five guys who walked by with a fishing net and a basket; I guess they must have been the local fishermen, but they didn't have a sign.
In the afternoon I went to a "campement" (tourist hotel/campsite) with a couple of other volunteers, just to hang out for a while. We got lucky, and there were hippos playing in the river there – the first time I've been them. I took lots of pictures. Hopefully they'll be up soon.
Hitchhiking
Thursday, 3 April 2008
Yesterday I had my first real hitchhiking experience. I biked from Tamba to Missira with some other volunteers, but they were stopping there, so after that I was biking on my own to my village. But before I had gone very far one of the cotton company trucks pulled over and offered me a ride. It was hot and I was tired (plus hitchhiking is normal here), so I said yes.
They threw my bike in the back and I sat up in the cab with the two cotton company guys. I can't even remember when the last time was that I sat in a nice vehicle with real seats (rather than on a bench in the back of an Alham), but it was heaven.
The driver only spoke Wolof, so I couldn't really talk to him, but the other guy spoke French and he told me how he'd tried to immigrate illegally to Spain last year. He took the land route through Mauritania to Morocco, and then he took a small boat to Spain, where he was immediately taken into a Red Cross reception center. The trick there is to convince them that you are from a war-torn, unstable country, and then they can't deport you. But this guy made a mistake: they organized soccer games at the reception center, and while he was playing he accidentally spoke Wolof, tipping them off that he is from Senegal. So he got deported. Soon as he saves up enough money he's going to try again, though.
After only about 20 minutes (what would have taken me 2 hours on my bike, or an hour on an Alham), we got to my destination village and I got off. I really hope I can hitchhike again soon.
Bye bye, COSers
Thursday, 3 April 2008
This past weekend we had a party for the Tamba region "COSers" – volunteers who have finished their two years and reached their Close of Service. In just a few days or weeks (depending on the individual volunteer's scheduling) they will be hopping on a place and going back to "Amerik", as we call it here.
This group includes my closest volunteer neighbor, Dado. In about a month and a half a new volunteer will arrive to take her place in her village, and I will suddenly become the older, wiser volunteer, rather than one of the "babies".
It's weird to have so many volunteers going home to America and not be one of them. But hopefully my second year in Senegal will be even better than the first.
Marabouts and magic water
Thursday, 3 April 2008
Since I got discouraged about my village work recently, I decided I should spend more time on cultural experiences, at least until I get some new project ideas or enthusiasm for my old projects.
So last week I went to visit a marabout, who is like a Muslim shaman. They make charms and potions for just about anything – to help you get a job, to protect your health and keep bad spirits away, make someone fall in love with you, get revenge on your enemy… Of course something like killing your enemy is considered black magic, and many marabouts won't do that sort of thing.
The marabout I went to is a relative of one of my villagers, so we went together to see him at his house in Tamba. He sat on his prayer rug while we talked, and I told him that I wanted something to protect me from bandits when I'm traveling. He said no problem, he'd have it ready in a few hours, and then he left.
My village friend and I waited at the house, watching African movies on the TV and eating lunch. Finally in the afternoon the marabout came back. He had made a necklace for me out of snakeskin and some kind of hair. Presumably he said some prayers or incantations or something while he made it, but disappointingly I didn't get to see it because that part is secret. He told me that when I wear the necklace I will be protected against all physical threats, including bandits, wild animal attacks, and car crashes.
Then he told me he had also made me some magic good luck water as a gift. He poured the water out of the Fanta soda bottle it was in and into a gourd bowl, and then he placed a board over the bowl and told me to step on it. If the gourd didn't crack with my weight then that meant the magic water would work. So I stepped up onto the board. The gourd made a sound like it might crack, but it didn't. Then while I was still standing on it the marabout started saying incantations. Creepily, the wind picked up right then and blew really hard for a few seconds. The marabout said that was the spirits working. Then it was done, and he told me I could step off the board and poured the water back into the Fanta bottle. I'm supposed to wash with a little bit of it every day, and then whatever I do that day will be successful.
So that was my trip to the marabout. I haven't used the magic water at all, but I have been wearing the necklace. He also told me that it would be good if I would sacrifice a completely white sheep and not eat any of it myself except for the heart and liver, but I think I'm going to pass on that one.
Rain!
Wednesday, 26 March 2008
It rained here last night, completely out of season. That's the second time that's happened this year (the first was in February, when I was on my way up to Dakar for vacation). My villagers say it's not completely unheard of to get rain during the dry season, but it still makes me wonder about global warming. One of my village women told me yesterday that if it rained she was going to start getting her fields ready for planting, in case the rainy season comes [3 months] early this year.
Unfortunately the rain didn't make it much cooler. I had to sleep inside last night, and it was miserably hot and sticky.
If you really want to have lots of kids…
Tuesday, 25 March 2008
I read somewhere recently that if you rub the dirt from inside a termite mound on your skin it will keep mosquitoes from biting you. We have lots of termite mounds around here, so I decided to ask one of my villagers if they've ever heard of that.
He said he'd never heard of it, but that one thing they do believe about termite mounds, or termites more specifically, is that if you swallow whole the queen termite, who is always at the base of the mound and is about the size of a man's thumb, you are guaranteed to have lots of kids. My villager said one of his friends swallowed the queen termite, and now he has almost 20 kids (with 3 different wives).
So if you're looking for fertility treatment, this is probably the cheapest and easiest method. Although surely also the most disgusting. Ew.
Saturday, March 22, 2008
Baby weighing
Written Monday, 11 March 2008
For two days this past week I went around my village with my counterpart and weighed all the kids we could find five years old and younger. We're going to re-weigh the kids every month. The idea, of course, is to track malnutrition levels in the village and to help mothers keep track of how their kids are doing and to motivate them to try harder to keep their kids well nourished.
This is what I found out from the first weighing: about 25% of the kids under five years old in my village are underweight/malnourished. I was a little surprised the percentage is so high since few of the kids here look malnourished, but during the weighings I discovered that a lot of the kids who look like a fairly healthy kid of a certain age are actually a lot older. So kids who look like they're 1 ½ or 2 years old are actually 3 years old or even older. They've just stopped growing, or at least aren't growing at a normal pace. It made me really sad to realize that.
There is a fairly large difference between boys and girls – 31% of the girls were malnourished, while only 19% of the boys were. I can't figure out why this is – from my own observations and also from asking my villagers about it, I know that boys and girls are given the same food in the same amounts. It's not like all the meat and other good food goes only to the boys.
Malnutrition problems start after babies are about 6 months old, when they are weaned. They get diarrhea from drinking dirty water and crawling around in and eating dirt. I think it is really this hygiene issue that is the problem, rather than not getting enough food or vitamins. We already talk to the women about filtering and bleaching their water, but I have no idea what to do about kids crawling around in and eating dirt. It is just the environment we live in here.
One difficulty with the weighings that might have thrown off the results (and I am hoping it did and the kids aren't as malnourished as these statistics show) is that the mothers often don't know how old their kids are. Birthdays aren't celebrated here, and people, especially the uneducated, which is basically all the women, aren't very familiar with the Western calendar. So unless the women brought their kid's vaccination card with their birthday on it, usually they could only tell us something like "He was born during the last rainy season." So I am hoping that some of the kids' ages were mid-guesstimated and they are actually younger, and consequently less underweight, than we recorded.
Next month, and every month from now on, we are going to re-weigh the kids to see if they are gaining weight from one month to the next.
Wife inheritance
Written Tuesday, 18 March 2008
There is an old custom here, which I believe is practiced throughout much of Africa (although I'm not positive, so don't quote me) that when a man dies, his brothers should marry his widows. In the West this is referred to as wife inheritance, and is usually viewed as an outdated, anti-feminist practice – the wives being passed around as if they were property to be inherited.
And maybe there's how it was in the past. Maybe there are still elements of that now. But I think the main purpose of the custom is to protect the widow and her children – rather than being just a "poor relation" dependent on the charity of others for survival, the widow, through marrying her late husband's brother, strengthens her ties to her husband's family and remains an integral part of that family. And any children she may have are more likely to be treated well by a step-father who is also their uncle (in West African tradition your father's brothers are considered to be also your fathers) than by a step-father who has no prior relation to them.
I bring all this up because my village host father is in the process of "inheriting" his deceased brother's wife. (Negotiations and arrangements are under way for the marriage). I am curious to see how it all works out and how our family dynamics will be affected.
The Affair of the Crinting
Sunday, 9 March 2008
The hut I am living in was built by my village for the previous volunteer, so now it is about 3 years old. Which means that the cement walls and floor are starting to crack and chip off, there are holes in the thatch roof where the rain will be able to come in when the rainy season starts (although the previous volunteer already had some of the thatch replaced last year), and the "crinting", the woven bamboo fencing for my backyard and latrine, is starting to fall apart. So I got permission from Peace Corps to pay to get everything repaired. Getting the cement and thatching was easy: I went to a store in Dialacoto and paid for the cement, and then paid for someone with a donkey cart to transport it back to my village. Same thing for the thatching: I paid some guys to cut some thatching grass out of the bush, and some other guys to transport it, and voila, a few days later it was sitting outside my hut.
The crinting, however, has been an entirely different story. Crinting is only made in a few villages around here (because of distance from the bamboo, I think), and the closest for me is a village about 10 km away. My host dad, the village chief, recommended a good crinting maker in the neighboring village, so one day, way back in January, my counterpart and I went to see him. He said he charges 1500 CFA, about $3, for each piece of crinting, which is about 10 feet long. We told him I needed 10. He said he could have them ready in 10 days. So we paid him a deposit of 7500 CFA, half the price of the 10 crinting pieces, and said we'd be back in 10 days to pay the rest and pick up the crinting.
My host dad had failed to mention to us, however, that while this guy makes good crinting, he's not exactly reliable. After a week, he sent someone to tell my counterpart that the crinting wouldn't be ready on the previously agreed date and gave a new date for when it would be ready. I figured this is just the way things work in Africa, and I wasn't bothered by it.
When the new deadline arrived, my counterpart and I biked over to the other village to get the crinting. But when we got there, his family said he was off in the bush making the crinting; he should be back at lunchtime. We said we'd wait. So we spent the whole morning just sitting there, with nothing to do but wait. The man wasn't back by lunchtime, though. So we had lunch with the village midwife, and then we waited some more.
Finally the crinting man showed up, and, as I had begun to suspect, the crinting wasn't ready. He gave us a new date when it would be ready, and we said fine, we'll be back then.
So it went for weeks. We'd show up in the morning, he'd be "out", we'd wait all day, and finally he'd show up and tell us he needed more time. One day we came in the morning and his family said he was out til the afternoon, so as usual we went to hang out at the midwife's compound. But then my counterpart decided to go back and check, "just in case" he'd come back early. Sure enough, his family had lied to us to cover for him, and he wasn't out at all but just hiding from us.
Finally I was fed up, and I told him that the next time I came he had better either have the crinting for me or else give me my deposit back, or else I was going to report him to the gendarmes. He agreed he would definitely either give me the crinting or the money.
So the next week we came back, determined to get one or the other. I thought that he would have been so scared after I mentioned the gendarmes that we would get whichever one (and I really didn't care which at this point) without any trouble.
But this guy was tougher than I thought. We showed up in the morning, and once again his family said he was out in the bush and would be back with the crinting by noon. This time we didn't go to the midwife's house to wait, but instead stayed at the crinting man's compound in ambush. But he wasn't back at noon. (I'm betting someone from the family warned him we were there and not to come back). His family told us, Well, definitely by 3:00 he'll be back. But 3:00 came and went. Definitely by 5:00. Ten they said, Well, sometime tonight. You can come back in the morning, and he'll be here. But I was really mad by then. (All day in the host sun with nothing to do made me cranky). So I reminded them that we had agreed that I would either get the crinting or my deposit back that day, or I was going to the gendarmes. I told them I'd better have received one or the other by 6:00 pm, or else.
So we sat there tensely for an hour, until 6 pm. Of course the man hadn't come back. I got up and told the family it was 6:00 and I was leaving. They tried to convince me to wait longer or come back in the morning, but I refused. (If I didn't leave then, I couldn't make it back to my village before dark, and the next day I was leaving for Tamba and then onwards for my much-awaited vacation).
So I left. When I got back to my village, my host sisters laughed at me, as they had been doing for weeks, for having wasted another whole day waiting for crinting I never received.
The next day I left for my vacation, determined not to worry any more about the crinting til I got back, and hoping that my counterpart and the crinting man would have resolved the situation by then.
Sure enough when I came back to my village this week, my counterpart told me he had gotten the deposit back from the crinting man (who I think was finally convinced that I was mad enough to report him to the gendarmes). He ordered the crinting from someone else, and a few days ago it was finally delivered to my hut.
So the crinting drama is finally over, and I didn't have to go to the gendarmes. (Would I really have reported the guy over stealing a $15 deposit? I'm not sure. I really don't know what the gendarmes would do about it – toss him in jail and throw away the key? Laugh at me and do nothing? Something in between?)
Now I just have to get someone to install the crinting and the thatch on my roof…
Competition!
Wednesday, 5 March 2008
I finally got back to my village last night after being gone for a few weeks for vacation, and this morning my counterpart came over to catch me up on what I've missed in the village while I've been gone and to talk about what activities we'll do over the next few days.
The big news: Kinkeliba, a private French hospital a few kilometers up the road, has hired and trained "relais" (health educators) to do health education classes and baby weighings in villages in the area, including my village.
This is exactly the same as what I'm supposed to be doing here, and as what volunteer relais trained by Africare, an American NGO working in the area, are supposed to do. Which brings me back to the question of what exactly is the point of me being here? And how is my counterpart, a volunteer relais trained by Africare, supposed to stay motivated to do health activities while he is not getting paid for it and someone else is? Should we just give up our activities and let the guy who is getting paid for it do them? Or continue our work, and compete with the other guy for popularity in the village?
However useless I feel, at least I can be pretty sure that health activities in the village won't just stop when I leave. Hopefully the village will benefit from all this competition between Peace Corps, NGOs, and private organizations.
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Hot
A surreal morning
Wildfire!
Written Monday, 7 January 2008
Literacy
Written Monday, 7 January 2008
I have started to teach one of my sisters, who never had a chance to go to school, how to write. She is a really curious person and seems to really regret not having an education. She is always asking me to teach her English words, but it is hard for her to remember them. I've been wanting to teach her to read for a while, but wasn't really sure how to go about it since there aren't really any reading materials available in Jaxanke. But finally it occurred to me that I should start by teaching her to write, and that will probably help her to remember letters better than just looking at them.
So I bought her a notebook and two pencils as a present, thinking that might be exciting for her – she's probably never owned school supplies before. She seemed really pleased when I gave them to her and wanted to start the first lesson right away. So I taught her A, B, and D (there's no confusing C in Jaxanke – just K or S to make those sounds), and we talked about words that have those sounds in them. She was really quick to figure out about breaking up words into syllables to sound them out.
So I think the first lesson went really well, and she seemed happy. I just hope she finds the time and the motivation to stick with it.
Taxes
A really good day
Stuck in Tamba
I'm back!
Friday, January 25, 2008
Traditional Medicine
Written Tuesday, 24 January 2008
Lately I've had a not very serious, but never-ending, cold. I used up all the throat lozenges that Peace Corps gave me. Stuck in my village with a scratchy throat and no throat lozenges = not fun. So my counterpart offered to make me some traditional medicine – a particular kind of leaf, boiled in water, and then sugar added.
I decided to try it. It was a thick, syrupy drink the color of pond scum. And tasted about like pond scum too. And it did indeed make my scratchy throat feel better. I still prefer throat lozenges, though.
Love potion!
Written Thursday, 24 January 2008
Recently one of my host sisters has stopped eating with my host family. At every meal I would ask where she was – shouldn't we call her to come eat? – and someone would tell me she was full. Very fishy, I thought. She wasn't sick, so I started to think that maybe there had been a fight in the family and she was avoiding hanging out with them.
Finally one day I saw her eating breakfast at my counterpart's compound, so I decided to ask him why she is not eating with us anymore. The answer was about the last thing I would ever have guessed: love potion!
A man in my village has asked her to marry him, and she has refused, saying she doesn't love him. So this man went to a marabout (religious leader) and got him to make a gris-gris (magical/religious object) – essentially a love potion – to put in her food, so that she will fall in love with him and agree to marry him.
My other host sisters, who do the cooking for the family, of course found out about the plot, and they warned her. So now she is not eating with our family so that no one can slip her some love potion. And soon she and her mother are even going to leave the village in order to escape from the threat.
Now I am worried – what if someone tries to slip me some love potion? My host mom would probably let them do it if they gave her enough money. Let's hope love potion doesn't work on toubabs.
Baboons!
Written Thursday, 24 January 2008
A few days ago I was biking back into my village from a neighboring volunteer's village, and I came upon a pack of at least thirty baboons crossing the road. There were moms with little baby baboons on their back, and a giant dad baboon that must have weighed more than me. They all moved away quickly when they heard me coming, so I didn't have to worry about them attacking me and I didn't have time to get a picture.
This wasn't the first time I've seen the baboons, but it was just one of those moments where I realize how amazing it is that I'm living in an African village.
Clothes in trees, Part 2
Written Thursday, 24 January 2008
I wrote on this blog several months ago about how people hang discarded clothes in trees. I asked around about why, and all I could get as an answer was that it is related to a taboo. Well, I finally got a little more information. The discarded clothes are hung in trees because if they are just thrown on the ground or burned, the former owner of the clothes, particularly if it is a child, will get sick. Putting them in trees is supposed to protect them from getting burned accidentally, and thus protect the clothes owner from getting sick.
What happens if there is a wildfire and the clothes get burned while they're in the tree? No clear answer.
Muslim New Year
Written Thursday, 24 January 2008
The Muslim New Year was last Friday. At least here, it is not a big holiday like Korite or Tabaski, but it meant we got to eat meat with our lunch. And in the afternoon, the women make dego, the Senegalese no-oven-required version of cookies, which is just corn, rice, or millet flour, or even a sort of paste made out of beans, mixed with water and sugar. Then the village children run in packs from house to house demanding their share of dego. It felt kind of like trick-or-treating on halloween. And the adults go around asking their neighbors to forgive them for any wrongs they have committed against them.
Puppet show
Written Thursday, 24 January 2008
This past week a couple of other volunteers and I performed a puppet show on dental hygiene in our villages. It was a lot of fun; I don't know if my villagers had ever seen puppets before.
It's funny how the things that sounded pointless or cheesy or lame to me before coming to Peace Corps, like teaching English or doing theater to teach health messages, turn out to be my favorite activities here.
Stop touching my boobs!
Written Thursday, 24 January 2008
I had a classic Peace Corps freak-out moment recently.
I knew before coming here that Africans' sense of personal space is different from Americans', and I was prepared to try to adjust. So when I got to my village and discovered that it is no big deal for people to touch women's breasts, it wasn't a surprise. So I've gotten used to village women grabbing my breasts to compare my size with theirs, or to pretend that they're going to have me breastfeed a baby. I even once had a woman at the market greet me by grabbing my breast and shaking it as if she were shaking my hand. All of which I have endured and sometimes even been able to laugh at, although it always still feels weird to be touched like that.
But one day about a week ago one of my younger host sisters, who likes to push boundaries with me and see what she can get away with, decided to test how far I would let her get into my personal space by grabbing my breast and massaging it. For whatever reason, instead of being able to ignore it or laugh it off, this time I just lost it. I screamed at her and would even have hit her (not at all in character for me) if I had not had my hands full with holding a small child upside down by its feet at that moment (the kid was enjoying it, I wasn't torturing her or anything).
Everyone in Peace Corps has their story of losing control and acting out of character, no longer able to keep pretending to be the perfect, tolerant volunteer. So this was mine. My villagers seemed surprised to see me so angry, but they seemed to understand why – I was told later that at some point in the past (when the last volunteer was here? Before the first volunteer came?) they had a meeting to sensitize the whole village about Westerners' ideas of personal space.
Now everything is back to normal in my village, no weirdness with my villagers over the incident. But no one has gotten in my personal space since then either, and I hope it stays that way.
Polygamy is depressing me
Written Thursday, 24 January 2008
Lately, all the men in my village seem to want to talk to me about is polygamy. They want to explain to me all the reasons why polygamy is a good and necessary thing – like that the second (or third or fourth) wife can help the first wife with all the chores, and can do the cooking for the family if the first wife is sick. And they tell me that having multiple wives can make a man's home life easier – if a man has only one wife, she might talk back to him or refuse to do chores or something, but if there are multiple wives, the wives will always be competing to be the husband's favorite and so they will be nicer to him. And of course there is always the argument that men have wandering eyes, and it is better for them to marry multiple wives than to have affairs.
On top of these theoretical discussions, a couple of my host brothers (whose wives are some of my best friends in the village) have told me they are looking for second wives. Nowhere in any of this talk is there any thought to how the wife feels. If I try to bring it up, I am just told that polygamy is allowed by Islam and by the culture, and that the women are used to it, or accept it, or whatever.
It is really starting to depress me that no one cares about how the women feel about it.
Monday, December 31, 2007
Friday, December 28, 2007
Tabaski pictures
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Tabaski
Written Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Last Friday my village celebrated Tabaski, commemorating the story in the Bible (and I guess in the Koran) when Abraham was told by God to sacrifice his son Isaac, but then at the last minute he was allowed to sacrifice a sheep instead. It's the most important holiday of the year here, but the celebration is almost exactly the same as Korite (the feast at the end of Ramadan) except that more money is spent on the feast and new clothes for everyone.
So shortly after breakfast all the men and the older women went to a field to say Tabaski prayers. I got to go too and take some pictures, which hopefully I'll upload soon. After the prayers we started eating whatever food was already cooked, so in my family we ate couscous with oily macaroni (I hate the oily macaroni, but what can you do). Soon afterwards I ate lunch with my family – a sheep they had sacrificed – and then my counterpart invited me to come eat with him, which I couldn't refuse, so I had a second meal of grilled sheep.
Throughout the day I was the official photographer – everyone wants a picture of themselves in their new pretty outfits – so I went around taking pictures of everyone, and they would tell me to come eat with them. I was stuffed already, but it would have been insulting to refuse, so I would have about two bites each time. I have definitely not had anywhere near this much meat since coming to Senegal. It took my digestive system three days to recover from the shock.
Around noon we spotted smoke out in the bush. It is not unusual at this time of year because it is common practice to set fires in the bush to clear away the undergrowth, but it was unusual on Tabaski because nobody was working that day. So some men went out to investigate, and they came back and said that there was a wildfire threatening the banana plantation. So some people went out to try to put it out, but I guess it wasn't a big threat because most people just carried on with Tabaski celebrations. We found out a few days later, though, that in the neighboring village some people's cotton fields got burned up, which is really unfortunate.
At the end of the day, just as for Korite, the women dressed up in their new outfits (they had been wearing old clothes all day for cooking) and went around the village to greet people and apologize for sins of the past year (but mainly to show off their new clothes, I think). This time I wore my blue boubou that I had made for swearing in, which none of my villagers had seen before. They got a real kick out of seeing me dressed up like that, and everyone agreed that I was a "real African" now.
Tuesday, December 18, 2007
Wanted: labor-saving devices
More integrating
Pirogue to Europe
Living on less than $2 a day
Monday, December 17, 2007
new pics
Friday, December 07, 2007
New pictures!
Harvest time
Come back, Colonialism!?
Progress report
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Strikes? Riots? Not here.
America
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Village Thanksgiving
Written Monday, 19 November 2007
Thanksgiving in the village turned out to be a success! I spent the whole morning helping the women cook (okay, mostly watching – they still won't let me do much) and running to the boutique for more spices or tea or whatever. And one of my volunteer neighbors came to celebrate with me, so that was really nice for me, although the other women kept complaining about us speaking English to each other.
Finally lunch was ready, and there was a ton of food for everyone, and it was delicious. My sisters had told me to buy potatoes and sweet potatoes for the meal, and I'd wondered what they were going to do with them, since yassa doesn't usually have potatoes in it. Turns out that they cut them up and fried them like French fries, and then sprinkled them on top of the yassa dish. I think they were my favorite part of the meal (although the rest was really good too).
So I was happy, and all my village family and friends told me they were happy too, especially because there was enough to eat leftovers for dinner too. It is traditional to give blessings for thanks here, so I was given lots of blessings for a long life, lots of money, and to find a good husband.
I just might have to do this again next year.
Thanksgiving in the village
Written Wednesday, 14 November 2007
I was in Thies for Easter this year, so I got to learn about a wonderful Senegalese tradition of people of different religions sharing their holiday celebrations with each other. My host family was Muslim and so they don't celebrate Easter, but Christian friends invited them over for their party and later sent over some of their special Easter food. And apparently this is a really common thing to do in Senegal. I think it's a really great way to promote religious tolerance – if everyone gets to enjoy the celebrations of each religion, then the more religions the merrier!
Anyway, so I think that is where I got my idea for celebrating Thanksgiving in the village. I've been thinking about it for several months now, thinking that it would be a much more memorable holiday than just hanging out with other volunteers at the Peace Corps house (although in the end I've decided to do that too, so Thanksgiving in the village is going to be a week before real Thanksgiving).
The only thing that was ever really holding me back from committing to the village Thanksgiving plan was cost. How much would it cost to hold a feast for all my village family and friends? Answer: about a third of my monthly allowance from Peace Corps, which seems like a huge amount, but in "real life", less than $100. Not bad.
Here's the breakdown for my village Thanksgiving feast of yassa:
n 1 medium-sized sheep (alive right now, but it won't be in the morning): $35
n 10 kilos of onions: $8
n 1 bottle of vinegar: $1
n 1 jar of mustard: $1.20
n 2 kilos of sweet potatoes: $1.60
n 2 kilos of Irish potatoes: $2.40
n lots of pepper: $0.50
n 3 bulbs/heads/whatever they're called of garlic: $0.60
n 2 kilos of carrots: $1
n 20 bouillon cubes (in 2 flavors): $1
n 15 kilos of rice: $8.25
n 5 liters of vegetable oil: $9
n 1 kilo of kola nuts: $4
One of my host brothers went to the market to buy the sheep for me, since he is a better judge of sheep than I am, and also could get a better price than I, the "rich toubab" could. When he brought the sheep home he came over and asked me if I wanted to see my sheep. I said sure, but as soon as I saw it I realized that was a bad idea because I immediately felt an impulse to name it. So I told my host brother it was going to make me sad, and I left. I think he was very confused about my crazy toubab behavior.